Hello, I discovered this thread on a search. If you're coming to Lakeland, I could point out places to visit..depending on what you're looking for.
There's not a lot up North where you're meeting (the Best Buy parking lot). You'll have 1 restaurant there, plus another couple across 98. There are also a pair in the shopping center next to Best Buy.
There's a mall across 98, but it's not too entertaining. It's an older indoor mall.
If it's not too late to change your meet location: you'll find a lot more restaurant and shopping options in the south mall --
Lakeside Village
If you want to park somewhere and see some nice sites... September 5th is a First Friday event in downtown Lakeland. There's not a large lot to park, but plenty of street parking, and you'll have shops, a couple of parks, and some architectural variety.
First Friday
I'll check back here if you have any other questions about Lakeland. I hope you enjoy what you do get to see when you get here.
Chuck
Lakelandlocal.com